Being True to Myself: Jill Rafter on Consulting and Motherhood

Season #1

Episode Summary

Building a business rarely begins with certainty. More often, it begins with reflection, experimentation, and the willingness to take the next step before everything feels fully defined.

In this episode of Conversations with Erica, executive coach and career development author Erica Mattison speaks with Jill Rafter, a Greater Boston–based edtech consultant, writer, and new mother. Jill shares how she began shaping a consulting practice that reflects both her professional expertise and the life she wanted to create as a parent.

During a period of professional transition and while navigating IVF and new motherhood, Jill started exploring what it might look like to work independently. What began as a few consulting projects gradually evolved into a growing business supporting edtech companies and nonprofits with strategy, writing, and growth initiatives.

Jill describes how putting herself out there, building relationships, and staying open to different paths helped her grow her consulting work. She also reflects on the mindset shifts that allowed her to move through uncertainty, trust her instincts, and create a rhythm that supports both her career and her family life.

Topics We Discuss

• Building a consulting business during a period of professional transition
• Navigating career decisions while becoming a new parent
• How putting yourself out there creates unexpected opportunities
• The role of reflection and coaching in clarifying direction
• Balancing flexibility, family life, and professional growth
• Why taking action before everything feels certain can lead to new possibilities

Quote to Remember

“You don’t have to have everything figured out before you start.”
— Jill Rafter

About Jill Rafter

Jill Rafter is a Greater Boston–based edtech consultant and writer who works with small and mid-sized education organizations to support growth, strategy, and grant and proposal development. A former classroom teacher, she now partners with startups, nonprofits, and education companies to help them navigate opportunities and expand their impact.

Reflection Prompts

You might reflect on:

• Where in your professional life are you waiting for clarity before taking action?
• What might change if you experimented with a small step forward instead?
• How could your work evolve if it more fully reflected your priorities and values?

Continue the Conversation

If this conversation sparked reflection about your own career direction, professional transitions, or the possibility of designing work that fits your life, you can explore more resources on Erica Mattison’s website.

Erica Mattison is an executive coach and career development expert who helps professionals and leaders clarify what matters, navigate career transitions, and move forward with greater confidence.

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You can also learn more about Erica’s book Clarifying What Matters: Creating Direction for Your Career, which offers practical reflection tools to help professionals make thoughtful decisions about what comes next.